What If I’m a Melancholy/Phlegmatic Choleric Melancholy?
As a Melancholy-Phlegmatic in Inclusion you appear to others as an introvert and a loner when in fact you actually prefer at least a moderate amount of social interaction. This is to say, that you won’t initiate socialization but you will respond if invited.
You like to keep a constant pace of productivity. You aren’t comfortable with “rush” work or with nothing to do. A moderate pace is most effective and most efficient.
You are extremely independent and do not like to be told how to do what you need to do. You a capable of making decisions and don’t need to know everyone’s opinion to see the best course of action. In fact, if others seek to involve themselves in your operations they need to understand the work must be done your way.
If interference runs high, you are not unwilling to lash out with harsh temper to put things back in their proper order.
You don’t openly express affection and prefer what you receive to be a private affair. You have very few deep relationships but those you do have are extremely founded, grounded and long lasting.
What other need to know about you:
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you must have your quiet time
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too much socialization drains your energies
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you won’t tolerate being controlled
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you want every thing done right the first time, and the way you want it done is the right way
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you have a temper
What you need to know about yourself:
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other people have good ideas too
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choices are not ultimatums
